“Are you sure we’ll eat those two
cinnamon rolls?” I asked the boys.
“Yeah, they’re big, but we’ll eat
them,” they seemed to reply together.

The trip
was dual purpose: I wanted to explore
the downtown shops of our new hometown, and I wanted to spend some time having
fun with my sons. I’ve not been very
good about getting one-on-one(or one-on-two) time with Benjamin, 12, and
Jeremy, 8 so I took the opportunity to use a gift card for the Electric Brew
just blocks from our new home. We moved
to our new house in Goshen Indiana just 3 weeks earlier.

“What are
we going to do?” Ben asked as we sat down.
He’s not one to sit still and enjoy the moment. I had some work to do. “Can we take these and
go?” he asked, pointing to the mis-matched ceramic plates holding our morning
snack.
Knowing
this would lay the groundwork for future relaxation opportunities, I had to act quick to make sure my boys
understood the art of chilling. “No,
we’re just going to sit here and eat our rolls.” Looks of incredulity… -‘Think
harder Brian’, my brain was telling me. When the going gets tough go for the potty
humor: “We’re just going to sit here and relax eating our rolls and talk –
‘Shoot the bull’.” That got the snickers
and quick exchange of glances from the boys I was looking for. We sat there and made our small talk. So small that even now just a day later I
don’t remember specifically what we talked about. I do remember just enjoying the time spent
with my two sons enjoying each other’s company and probably learning a little
of how to bust each other’s chops.
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